Grow a Backbone & Get a Grip.
The 90-day unapologetic, pattern-breaking transformation program to help the high-achieving, high-feeling girlies stop leaking their energy clinging to him & become unstoppable and secure.
Secure Your Spot✦ Doors open May 30th · We start June 1st ✦
And you've tried everything to break the toxic loops…
The personal development books. The podcasts. The therapy (where you leave the session feeling relieved for a few hours). And then you return to your life and find yourself clinging to what doesn't fully choose you all over again.
This is the program that goes where nothing else has.
This is for you if
so hard it feels like death.
the next minute he's kicking you and throwing your shit out the door.
but somehow he sucks you right back in and doesn't take accountability.
thinking that'll fix your heart — when it really is just a bandaid on your reality.
and you're ignoring all of it.
and right now you're obsessing over someone who doesn't want you.
This is NOT for you if
You're looking for a quick fix or a magic pill that makes you secure without actually doing anything differently.
You're not ready to look at yourself honestly, feel what needs to be felt, and follow the plan.
You want results without the reprogramming, the releasing, or the full-body work it actually takes to get there.
You want to spend the whole program talking about him instead of doing the work on you. This isn't about him — it's about the pattern.
You want daily hand-holding. This is about transformation and rebuilding trust with yourself — not outsourcing your approval or your power.
You're waiting on him to apologize, change, or come back before you'll let yourself move on. Get A Grip starts the moment you stop waiting on him.
For a moment
This is exactly what Get A Grip was built to help you do.
And then there's me
I'm Kaila. I'm a fur mama to many.
After spending years stuck in my own toxic cycles, studying attachment theory, diving deep into somatic work, and investing deeply into understanding the subconscious mind — I saw a massive gap in the healing space.
Writing the love letter method, scripting him back, or vague "let him" advice was never going to work. Because none of it was actually touching the pattern underneath.
Most healing programs have made the nervous system trendy. It looks good in a caption, sounds good on a reel — but what they're packaging as a cute and speedy-quick-get-everything-you-want-life, they didn't actually get cute or fast. So you're thrown something surface level that leaves out the in-depth emotional processing that actually dissolves the patterns, and you're left wondering why it hasn't worked yet.
You know you are a badass woman at your core, and you've BEEN ready to do something that'll actually work. That's exactly why I created Get A Grip — so it's tailored to where you currently are.
And here's what that looks like…
What's included
Real-time coaching, support, and the kind of direct answers that actually move the needle. You bring the situation — you leave with the shift.
Daily support, accountability, and a group of women who actually want to Get A Grip. No fluff. No performance. Just women doing the work together.
Six modules and every tool you need to rewire at the source and become UNSTOPPABLE. This is the system — built for the woman who is finally ready.
The shift
The real questions
90 days. Long enough to actually rewire the pattern. Short enough that you stay in momentum the whole way through.
Open enrollment is happening now — you can secure your founding member spot today. The program officially launches May 30th and we kick off together June 1st. The earlier you enroll, the sooner you start to Get a Grip and secure future you.
Bi-weekly live Q&A calls with me. You bring what's coming up, you get real-time coaching, you leave with a shift. Can't make it live? Replays are available.
Perfect. No experience needed. The framework walks you through it step by step. All you need is a willingness to actually do the work.
Get A Grip isn't just about one man. It's about the pattern underneath that runs every area of your life — your friendships, your worth, your self-trust, your nervous system. If you've ever clung to what didn't fully choose you, this is for you.
This methodology works if you do it. Trust the process and give it time to integrate. Most women begin feeling significantly different within the first few weeks.
Yes. Option 2 is two monthly payments of $254. Klarna, Affirm, and Afterpay are also available at checkout.
No. Get A Grip is a coaching program — not therapy or mental health treatment. I am not a licensed therapist. This work pairs beautifully with therapy if you're already in it, but it doesn't replace it. If you're in crisis or experiencing severe mental health symptoms, please work with a licensed professional.
Because of the nature of digital products and the depth of work we'll be doing together, all sales are final. The women who get the most out of this are the ones who commit fully from the start.
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Three ways in
Pick the path that works for you. Lock in the founding member rate before doors close — or join the waitlist and we'll hold a spot for you.
First in line when doors open May 30th — we start June 1st
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